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![Source coordnatebr Today I let one of the girls at my intenship paint my nails. A fow girls exclaimed, that's weirdl and one boy timidly asked, are you actually letting her paint your nails? I told them that boys are allowed to paint their nails and asked them who told them they couldn 1? None of them had an answer. And one-by-ane the boys came over to the nail painting station and started doing their own nails, and each others nails, and one boy even got really excited and asked if he could do my other hand and it was just a really cool thing to see When the parents came to pick up the kids, the boy who had enthusiastically painted my nails, started scraping of his nail polish sister's nail polish and his dad gave him a "whoopin And then, in the meekest voice Ive very heard, he whispers, "but next time I come to [the program], I think Ill just paint them again, anyways. I think sometimes parents can be wrong about stuff too·t half-smiled and whispered back. 1 think you might be right. And helped him take the rest off with nail polish remover And that was the coolest moment of my day maminism #awesome people mat varmin mids ginspirational](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/615/232/54d.jpg "54d.jpg")
![enjoyablycrazy asks: gotta admit i've had nothing but bad experiences regarding social justice people but the way you keep your cool and focus on calmly explaining your point of view using facts is pretty admirable and is making me a lot more open to your ideas medievalpoc said: your super valuable opinion on Since you're so willing to grace one of Those People Those PeopleTM, I'll share a secret with you. You're my #1 least favorite type of person in the universe I'll take a raving bigot any day over an insidious purveyor of backhanded compliment slinging "You're not like those OTHER [marginalized group of people], you're admirable and use facts and keep cool and caaaaalm." The main information conveyed to me by this message is: 1. That you have said or done things that have caused harm to marginalized people or witnessed such an incident 2. and instead of listening, being respectful, and starting to consider other people's well-being, mental health, and physical survival and how you (yes, you!) can positively or negative affect that 3. You decided that "social justice types" are (to use the opposite words to the ones youve just used to describe me) angry, unfocused, not-calm, do not explain, do not use facts, are unworthy of admiration, and these things cause you to close your tender ears to their "ideas" In other words, youve just said a lot about you, and really nothing about anyone else This is far from the first message like this I've gotten, and I'm sure it won't be the last. Not to mention that there are plenty who are firmly of the opinion that I am, in fact, none of the things you claim that I am. If you really think that I'm so starved for approval that I would accept and become implicit in the dehumanizing insult youve just levied at countless other bloggers who you deem "social justice types", youve got an entirely other thing coming. As I've just said, diversity of perspectives is important to show, and nowyouve shown yours: that marginalized people are only worthy of your precious openness to their "ideas" if they behave toward you in the manner you feel entitled to. I engage this material emotionally, passionately, excitedly, angrily, openly, happily, and with great joy. All you really want from sending this message is to use my supposed credibility to undermine people you dislike, or that you believe shouldnt be allowed to speak to you in a certain manner I am not your "social justice" buddy you can use as a bludgeon on a pedestal in an attempt to make other people, who you perceive to be of a "type" with me, behave. Shame on you. Jan 7, 2014 3:41 pm , 6,326 Notes Like Tweetく7 tumbl](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/list/000/685/004/6f8.png "The Internet: Where Complimenting Someone is an Insult")
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