This is why Crimson Flower is the most disappointing route: not only is it short, it completely wastes the opportunity for a side-mission of Byleth using his/her "I eat the Emperor's Pussy" Power to just walk up to the Varley estate and ice a mother fucker.

In the Japanese version, Bernie's dad just want her daughter to be a proper Yamato Nadeshiko and become a fully-fledged subdued woman ready to be arranged for marriage, which doesn't make any sense in the eyes of Western Playerbase who doesn't really get it with the importance of Japanese culture of a proper and why Bernie is freaked out when she's not being able to fulfill the criteria of being a good wife.
The Localization makes him abusive, which kinda justify her desperation and low self esteem.