A mafia don that does not wants to live a life of crime. But if he left, the power vaccum would only cause more chaos.
The part of his job he hates the most are the interrogations so he preffers to avoid it where he can.
If he is offering you a way out you better take it because he is not lying.

I'm going to give you an offer you can't refuse…

I-I mean, unless you want to, then I think we could work something out over a cup of tea.

]:)